Last week I had the pleasure of a three day escape to the Oregon Coast.  There is something so mysterious about getting away.  The time goes so quickly, much faster than if you are home doing your normal routine.   If the anticipation wasn't so enjoyable one would really wonder if it was just a blink.


For three days I didn't cook, do laundry, answer the phone, relay messages, run errands or anything else that I wasn't sure I wanted to do.


What I did do was sew, share, and reflect.  I finished three quilts that I had started, and now they are done.  Made one more from start to finish and now I just have the quilting part to do and the memories to keep.  I go with a good friend who seem to be able to relate to my crazy life.  She has worked in the quilting industry, understands the process from both sides of the counter, she is married, has daughters, grandchildren, a mom and me.  We neither one have a siblings, so she is my sister friend.  


I see women come in the shop who belong to groups and the bonds they have with friends is strong, and valuable.  The
have relationships that are gifts.   I have been fortunate to cultivate some very special friends from  the shop.  Strong, smart and incredibly talented women they too are gifts.


So today, the first day of my 59th year I am grateful for all the women in my life.  The older ones who share their experience and wisdom, who have been there and done that.  The ones who are in my similar situation, working, fighting their daily drama, and sharing along the way.  And the precious ones who are younger, have great creativity and enthusiasm for all of life still ahead of them.   


It is my wish for this year that I live and love more than before.  I want people to know what they mean to me.  And I want to make the most of each day.   


Going to go with Ellen's advice.....be kind to one another....